N*ggas and Boys

“N*ggas and boys. Boys and n*ggas”: this is how many of our black sistahs view black men.

It’s either “that n*gga, boy, guy or ‘male’” instead of that MAN OF GOD!

It’s not all but I wouldn’t be speaking right if I didn’t say a “solid majority” of black women view black men as cuckhold “n*ggas” under the White Man’s Thumb.

What has happened to us as (Christian) Black men?

We have lived in this wicked world too much and have corrupted and defiled ourselves in the Rap and Hip-hop culture of drugs, alcohol, tattoos, lawlessness, violence, greed of money, materialism and the Devil’s False lie that “this world is all we have”.

Some rappers in "The Game” call this “Y.O.L.O.” meaning “You Only Live Once”. And that may be true on the surface on the phrase for all men live only once on earth THEN ETERNITY.

Heaven or Hell?

Nevertheless, there is always HOPE for REDEMPTION IN CHRIST. We (as [Christian] black men) can get ourselves together and be respected, honourable men to our women, society BUT MAINLY TO GOD.

This all starts with READING and MEDITATING in the WORD OF GOD with PRAYER.

We learn, study and LIVE by GOD’S WORD in EVERY AREA of our EVERDAY LIVES.

We “clean up” our physical appearance by practicing healthy personal body hygiene, showering, cleaning and getting our teeth fixed; wearing  respectable clothing, get rid of our tattoos; we speak clear and plain English – no “slang-talking”.

We treat people with dignity and respect with that ol’ charming “swagger” us brothahs are born with.

We do our BEST to live CHRIST-HONOURING lives based on the STANDARDS of GOD’S WORD even though we always fall short of God’s Glory in our mortal, fleshly bodies on earth. Yet we KEEP ON DOING OUR BEST.

KJV Romans 3:19-26,

19 Now we know that what things soever the law saith, it saith to them who are under the law: that every mouth may be stopped, and the world may become guilty before God.

20 Therefore by the deeds of the law there shall no flesh be justified in his sight: for by the law is the knowledge of sin.

21 But now the righteousness of God without the law is manifested, being witnessed by the law and the prophets;

22 Even the righteousness of God which is by faith unto all and upon all them that believe: for there is no difference:

23 For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God;

24 Being justified freely by his grace through the redemption that is in Christ Jesus.

25 Whom God hath set forth to be a propitiation through faith in his blood, to declare his righteousness for the remission of sins that are past, through the forbearance of God;

26 To declare, I say, at this time his righteousness: that he might be just, and the justifier of him which believeth in Jesus.